Well! If you are going to host it off your home PC --------you can only have 4 or 5 people on it or you will crash! As far as the deathmatch thing just select your tab for game style when setting it up! I would recomend downloading a few mods that go into your system folder to spice it up a little! My best thought for you is to go to -------www.goteamspeak.com and download the client version and hop on our Team speak and just play wiht us here instead of trying your own server at home due to the bandwith problem you will run in to! We pay $36 bucks a month  for our server so we can all have fun! It's public and has lots of good people here to help you out or to just have fun with! See you soon!