Hey  just filling you in on Patti and Gina. Well Patti is working things out but I believe its for the kids. Gina is holding her tongue, although she doesnt want him here she feels hes invading her space by coming here. 
Since you talk with Patti ill show you her e-mail back to me....

It is true.  I have been talking to him.  As I told Bubbles, I don't know at this point what the future holds with him but we have settled down on the hatred and all that.  It's ok, I'm not mad at any of you.  I feel honered that you guys would stand by me like that.  What a great group of friends you are.  And my sister too!  I know she's biting her tongue on all of this.  But she is trying to be somewhat civil.  I have a great sister ya know!!  Anyway, you can relax because I might have reacted the same way.  Well, hopefully I'll get to play sometime and see you in the game.  Have a good day.

I told her to watch his facial expressions and dont listen to his words. facial features tell all.
Thanks for looking out I know she appreciates your help aswell

take Care Buddy
Brett