Here is a tip for everyone............ Mind your own fucking business. Keep your mouth shut when it comes to other peoples personal shit.  Chances are that you would only have part of the real story anyway. If someone confides personal stuff to you, keep it between yourselves. Maybe that person needs a friend. Be that friend!

Jaded and Raven, if you feel that you must leave, I wish you the best. I also don't think you need to leave just because of Nicole apparently (I'm giving Nicole the benefit of doubt, for now) shooting her mouth off.  That has nothing to do with the rest of us.  Your personal shit is just that......Your personal shit. We are here if you need to talk but we really don't listen to gossip.  We only believe what we hear straight from the person that it involves. I hope you change your minds and stay with us. I like both of you. Potty mouths and all! :P