I've been reading the forums and saw what all the guys wrote when my ex posted to introduce himself.  I was kind of shocked.  Then I read yours and I had to smile that you didn't immediately bash him.  I understand why they all feel the way they do.  It was very wrong what he did to me but you did the right thing by thinking to maybe check with me first.  Thank You.   At this point I really don't know what's going on with him.  We are talking now and he is planning on moving back here.  But only time will tell what the outcome will be.  I'm just taking it a day at a time.  
It's quite possible that after he reads all those nice things that he won't be back here which should make everyone happy.  I do however appreciate the fact that all my gaming buddies would stick up for me like that.  Which is more than even some friends would do.....I really do like all you guys.  Well, have a great day!

PB