Maybe we should eventually tell Jolly to quit the {bAd} clan. Then after a month or so we could bring him to the {dFb}. If we as a clan feel that he should be in our clan.
I do agree that some peoples feelings are going to get hurt and there is nothing we can do about it except allow them to move on and hope no hard feelings. We need to worry about [dFb} and only {dFb}.