I won't reply to the other sections of your post only this 

[quote:5479bbdc12] Oh geez...... maybe you're right. Maybe I should change my name so people can't ruin my name in the game because I don't have the same time to play. maybe I'll do just that, after all isn't that what you did? [/quote:5479bbdc12]

It wasn't about a name (such as $MM$) to ruin the name.  $MM$ can't be ruined.  

It was on the lines of I didn't feel connected with the name anymore.  It was a name I created when I was constantly on TS/dFb servers or servers in general.  It was a name that was used when I was able to socialize more either playing or not playing.  Therefore I didn't feel connected to the name.  I changed names to fit my personality on a game.  Punisher is more unable to socialize as frequently but will pop in there and punish you a bit.  That is the reason for name change.  So all and all.. get it right!